Question:Dear Christine,
I met a guy in a club over a month ago. He's a friend of a friend, but I didn't know him very well. Although we've dated three times, he still doesn't seem to have a positive response to me. We have been intimate, but when I ask him if we are boyfriend and girlfriend, he doesn't answer me directly. He just says we should talk about that next time. He then called me for a date but not to talk about our relationship. Am I his girlfriend? Is this abnormal?
Am I his Girlfriend?
Answer: Dear AIG,
If you want to develop a relationship with this man, do not be intimate again until you've had a discussion. Find out if he actually wants a relationship or if he is just wanting someone to hook up with. You need to ask him, rather than assuming he knows what you are thinking or wanting. Remember, you deserve to be dating someone you can openly communicate with. By asking, you will know exactly where you stand rather than "hoping" he'll come around.
To your authenticity,
Love, Christine